Focus On Community
Issue #10: Ticklish Thanksgiving
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This week, those of us who live in the USA celebrate the Thanksgiving holiday. There are normally all sorts of threads up about what folks are thankful for in their own lives. This year. I decided to put a slight twist on that. So, I posted the following on the 3 more active forums....
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| Ticklish Thanksgiving.
No, no! I'm not writing about getting tickled for Thanksgiving...though that would definately be fun! I'm asking for your input. As I mention on my site, one of the reasons why I put all the time and energy into the TK-411 site is that I'm grateful for all that I've gained from being a part of this community. Since it's about time to do another Focus On Community segment and the (US) Thanksgiving holiday is coming up, I thought it would be cool to have folks share about what they're thankful for in relation to tickling and the tickling community. Sooooo....
What are YOU thankful for? Is it the vast array of great art, stories,
etc.? Is it the gatherings? Is it the individuals you may have met? Is it
the discovery of the fact that you aren't alone after all? Is it the
fact that there's tons of free wanking material?
Let us know. I'll be compiling a page of responses. The night before Thanksgiving, I'll upload the Thanksgiving segment, sharing all your responses. |
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As I sat back and watched the responses, I thought about the many things I'm grateful for. This community has been a source of many blessings for me. It's brought me many good friends and even more really cool acquaintences. It's been instrumental in a great deal of healing both emotionally and spiritually. It led me to finding the love of my life. It's taught me to be more open with, understanding of and accepting of those around me. It's been there with and for us as we've struggled through illness and losses of family members. It's laughed with us, cried with us and laughed with us again. It's given us a place where we can speak openly of our love of tickling without the slightest concern that others will think us wierd...because everyone here is "wierd". What a happy fault! Bottom line...? I'm thankful for all of YOU!
So, what were others thankful for? Here are the responses posted to the threads...
| by Gadilici » Wed Nov 11, 2009 04:08 pm
That I'm not the only one like this. Everything else stems from me not being alone, so, I'll leave it there. Christopher |
| by IronMaidenOwns » Wed Nov 11, 2009 04:29 pm
I would say I am thankful that there are others out there like me. Also in reguards to thanksgiving tickling ... Kinky is with a feather , perverted is with the whole turkey |
| by Dalekfire » Wed Nov 11, 2009 05:42 pm
I'm thankful for the high level of acceptance this community can boast to have, not only for the many levels of interest members share about their ticklish kinks, but for other fetishes, for other beliefs, for other...weird, random things, as the lot of you are totally weird and random (and proud of it, I hope ). I'm also particularly thankful for how civil and relational this community is, compared to other sites. We're over seventy-thousand members strong, and yet I feel as if we're tight as a village. You guys are the true definition of family, if there could ever be one on the 'net. |
| by Morning Angel » Wed Nov 11, 2009 05:55 pm
What a great idea! I'm thankful for this community of open-minded people and the courage to be one of them. |
| by Alphano » Wed Nov 11, 2009 05:59 pm
After a little thought; the opportunity to meet some of the best friends I have. the confidence that comes from being at peace with (at least part of) yourself. the opportunity to do some downright perverted things with some very attractive women! |
| by BrightEyes1082 » Wed Nov 11, 2009 08:20 pm
I met my Dominant, and several of my very best friends on the TMF. For that I will always be grateful. |
| by Skipadeedoodah » Wed Nov 11, 2009 08:51 pm
First and foremost I've met some of the most amazing people here. I'll always cherish the friendships the TMF has brought me. In addition, I've noticed more and more lately how much more open-minded being part of the community has made me. Being exposed to so many different kinds of people and relationships and activities has not only made me more accepting, but more open to think about trying things I never thought I would even consider. |
| by texastickler » Wed Nov 11, 2009 09:04 pm
I am just thankful for finding a place where I am accepted. It is a good feeling. Some find me too strange. Here, I am normal. Seriously though, I have not met one member here in person. All those that I have met while on the forum have been gracious, caring, fun and enjoyable. I hope i am not too bold by saying that I call all of you my friends. I am thankful that I no longer feel alone. |
| by unit5610 » Wed Nov 11, 2009 10:28 pm
I'm thankful for discovering I'm not a total weirdo for having this fetish, as I'm already a little odd for plenty of other reasons. I'm also thankful for the terrific people I've chatted on-line with and those I've actually met, not the least of whom is Ann herself. I'm also very thankful to Jeff, Myriads and everyone who maintains the high quality and integrity of this forum. |
| by TklDuo-Drew » Wed Nov 11, 2009 10:55 pm
Not what are you thankful for...............who? You, my sweet!! Drew |
| by venray » Thurs Nov 12, 2009 12:16 am
Having a place to come and be ourselves and make lifelong friendships.... Doesn't get better than this! |
| by baldadonis » Thurs Nov 12, 2009 12:22 am
Through this community, I've met so many amazing friends, some of the best and closest I've ever have. Just being able to have friends that I can talk to about tickling, even though we rarely do, is an amazing thing. It allowed me to be able to open up myself to people in a way that I don't think I ever had before. I've been so much happier and content since becoming active here. I have more confidence in myself; I know who I am now, and where tickling falls into my life. I don't worry or obsess about tickling anymore. I know its important to me and I embrace that about me. Most importantly, this community introduced me to my girlfriend, who not only shares my love of tickling, but far more importantly shares my same sense of humor, likes all my friends, shares similar values, is warm, kind, and makes me feel better whenever I'm with her. I could probably ramble on for a long time about how thankful I am for the many blessings this forum has given me. But suffice it to say, I am thankful for all my friends, for my girlfriend, for all the fun, for all the memories, and for all the wonderful times still to come. |
| by ticklish mids female » Thu Nov 12, 2009 09:35 am
I'm thankful for being so ridiculously ticklish!! Also thankful found other people who find my ticklishness as fun as me hehe!! |
| by HOLLYWOODBROTHER » Fri Nov 13, 2009 2:55 pm
for the legend himself known as the hollywood brother the hollywood brother is very thankful for this forum and the good people who are on this granbd forum. the hollywood brother is also thankful for the blessings that the hollywood brother has in his life |
| by IrishTickle » Fri Nov 13, 2009 05:26 pm
Like everyone else, I'm thankful for all the great people who make this community what it is. I'm also thankful for everyone who puts the effort in to keep these sites running. And I'm extra special thankful for Reade's Internet Directory from about 15 years that had a mention of some newsgroups (remember them?) about tickling. It was the first time I realised that I'm not as weird as I thought (but I was still weird in other ways!) |
| by IronMaidenOwns » Fri Nov 13, 2009 5:29
pm
I am gonna go with being thankful for that this site is friendly and inviting you don't have to kiss certian people's asses here just to be accepted. |
| by IrishLad » Fri Nov 13, 2009 06:48 pm
I'm definitely thankful for everyone in the tickling community because without all these like-minded people to talk to I would have always thought that I was totally nuts! Here here!!! |
| by BOFH666 » Sun Nov 15, 2009 03:42 pm
I'm thankful for the scene leading directly to me meeting my wife. I'm thankful for meeting some fantastic people, including my best friend. I'm thankful that I've had the chance to, in a very small way, give something back and help grow the community in the UK. And I'm thankful for all of the people that make up the community, who continue to help it grow and thrive every day and make it just a fantastic place to be. |
| by 123go » Mon Nov 16, 2009 06:16 am
I'm thankful for meeting all the people I have so far met; I'm thankful for the fact that there is a community for this and that (again) I'm not the only one! |
| by Kat » Tue Nov 17, 2009 03:34 pm
I'm thankful (again) for the community, and meeting so many of my closest friends. I'm thankful that I have got to meet many ticklish lees and evil lers and all the wonderful people I've met (and not played with) as well. I'm thankful that I found my current boyfriend and that it's lead to lots of fun in the past. I'm especially thankful that it opened my eyes to many possibilities. |
| by wolfman » Tue Nov 17, 2009 05:34 pm
I'm also thankful for this wonderful board & the community it brings together I'm also thankful for the chance to meet some great people this year |
| by Musicroxmysox » Thurs Nov 19, 2009 9:07 pm
Having someplace to go when I'm down and being able to vent and get support and timeless advice and being cheered up by the hoards of amazing people who feel like family to me. |
| by » Thurs Nov 19, 2009 10:43 pm
I am so thankful for all of the people I have met on here. My closest friends and the people that truly know me best are here. This place has given me so much confidence and help when I've been down. I really don't know what I would do without the TMF. |
| by Sasaxrah » FriNov 20, 2009 6:29 pm
I'm thankful for so, so many reasons... * I met the best guy here, and tricked him into dating me for the past 10 months. Mwa ha ha. * Some of my best friends are on here, and I talk to most of them more often than my non-TMF friends. * I always have something to check in on when I come home. * I get a diversity of opinions here that I do not get in my every day life. Most people who surround me tend to agree with me. * I get to visit friends all over the country. * If I want to, I can satisfy any curiosity about tickling. * I can flex my knowledge of city names in alphabetical order. * There's always something on here that makes me laugh. * There's always something on here that makes me cringe. Then go on Skype and laugh about it. * The possibilities for meeting cool new people are endless. Between the TMF, Baldadonis' munches, and gatherings, there are always great potential friends right around the corner. * After spending time here, I've been able to normalize something I always felt weird about. * The free clips are fun. * I know that if I ever went through something difficult, I could find plenty of support here. * I look forward to breaks from work so I can stay up late and go to TMF Radio shows or trivia. I'm sure there's more. This place does so much. |
| by Rockshock28 » Fri Nov 20, 2009 7:34 pm
Like most people, i'm grateful for the people i've met. |
| by theticklingmaster » Sat Nov 21, 2009 12:25
am
I'm thankful that I am not the only one who likes tickling a lot! |
| by KrazieDog » Sat Nov 21, 2009 1:44
am
Without a doubt the people. The friendships I've made within the community are second to none. It's the feeling I get going to a gathering, not at the prospect of play, but of getting to see my "family" again. The soberness of returning home without them, haunts me throughout the following week. They are both an inspiration and source of joy and betterment in my life. Beyond that, the forum was the place that made it possible to meet these like minded people, and also house the libraries of material people have made to share. Life does not exist because of it, but quality of life is enhanced by its existence. |
| by QueenBeeBeeMari » Sun Nov 22, 2009 10:19
pm
I'm just thankful for all the support and wonderful people I have met and that even though I have been through so much in the past few years everyone has stayed by my side here.I just really appreciate such wonderful friends |
| by RickTibbler » Tues Nov 24, 2009 10:58
am
Put me down for that "tons of free wanking material"! Actually, I love that there are two wonderful boards full of tickling fans out there, and that the fact that we have all realized that there ARE so many of us has allowed many to open up about our once secret desires and explore them. Also, I especially like it when I get to see rare tickling videos/art/photo-sets/stories from the past(pre-net days) lovingly uploaded for all to see. |
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Wow! That's a lot to be thankful for! Thanks to those who responded. Did anyone else notice that not a single response was made that didn't include "people" in some form or other? So, thanks to YOU! Thanks to all who make this community what it is...no matter which particular part of it you happen to spend time with. It is you who allow it to be here for so many people in so many different ways.
And while we're giving thanks... I'd also like to take this opportunity to once again thank MTP Jeff for making this site possible by providing hosting for us. You're a good friend to the community, Jeff. So, in your honor and in closing....
I think we're done here.
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